Give Your Jacket

Giving your jacket to your girl when she is really cold is what a real gentleman does. You won’t care about yourself even you are half-naked or you are cold too as long as you are sure that she is warmth. You will prefer her own health and condition rather than your own. I tell you, if you do this, she will always remember this in her lifetime. She will even treasure your jacket. She might hug it during her sleeps and still feel your warmth against her body. She might also smell it to know your scent because that reminds her of pure love and gentleness you give to her.
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Lucky Enough

You are one lucky person if you already have that someone who is very much in love to you. Who is willing to do everything just to fill your heart with so much happiness. Who is ready to give it all for you. Who is ready to take the risks just to give you everything you want. Who does all the things he/she can just for you to say. 

If I were you, I will always treasure that person because nowadays, those persons and one-of-a-kind. It’s a one-in-a-million chance that you will find someone like them. Consider yourself lucky if you found him/her already. Don’t ever let him/her go. And always return the favor. 

Picture To Burn

You love that person so much but what did he/she give you in return? Tons of heartaches, pains and sufferings. You feel so betrayed with the love you feel. You fall in love to a wrong person who doesn’t know your true worth and value. Don’t chase for him/her. If he/she wants it that way, be it. Don’t shed a tear. A person like him/her doesn’t deserve a single tear from you. You are special. And that person is too stupid not to see that. 

All you have to do is to show to him/her that he/she is not your loss. You are his/her loss. You are the best thing that can ever happen to his/her life. Prove to him/her that he/she is just another picture to burn. Prove to him/her that you can still spring back to your old self. Prove to him/her that he/she is just a dark memory of your past that you can forget anytime you want. And prove to him/her that you can still have a happy life without him/her around. Lastly, prove to him/her that there is still a lot of fishes in the ocean. 

When You Fall in Love to a Girl

You should be:

• Understanding. Why? Because girls have this so-called mood swings that every now and then happens. If you are not understanding enough, that will always be the source of your fights and arguments.
• Patient. Why? Once in a month, they will have menstrual period that we, boys can never ever understand how it feels. Be patient if her mood shifts from here to another.
• Calm. Why? Girls are sensitive. If you are the kind of guy who loves to shout, most likely, you will hurt the feelings of your girl. Always be gentle and calm with the way you speak or express your feelings.
• Gentle. Why? Gentle in the sense of being gentle. Whether in actions or in words. Every girl loves a gentleman. That makes them feel more feminine.
• Affectionate. Why? Girls love it when their boys show their affection towards them because they can feel that they are truly loved. And one more thing, not all boys are showy. So if you show your affection to them, they will most likely feel that you really love them because you are not afraid to show your feelings.
• Surprising. Why? Every girl loves surprises. It shouldn’t be big or extravagant. That thought that you exerted efforts to surprise them just to see them happy is very heart-warming.
• Musician. Why? You don’t necessarily have to know all the instruments. At least one will do. Girls love being serenaded by the boys they love. It really makes them feel special.
• Protective. Why? there are rude boys out there. They might disrespect your girls. So you should always be alert. You should protect them to those bad guys. They will love you more if you emerge as their knights in shining armors.
• Listener/Adviser. Why? Girls have tons of insecurities in their system. They also love to brag and nag about something. You should always listen to them especially to their problems no matter how boring it gets in your perspective. You should always lend them your ears. And you should give them advises of what to do about certain cases.
• Humorous. Why? Not every guy possessed this kind of ability. Though you are not the handsomest or the hottest guy out there, when you've got this thing, you can make her fall in love to you deeper.
• Spontaneous. Why? Because girls appreciate it when your actions or your words come naturally. Not in a way that you forced them to come out of you. The feelings wouldn't be there if it's not spontaneous.

Moving On

I wish that moving on is as easy as reciting the alphabet. As easy as memorizing the multiplication table. As easy as finding the common denominator of certain fractions. As easy as finding the least common denominator or the greatest common factor. As easy as constructing sentences using the sentence patterns. As easy as singing your favorite songs. 

But it is not. It is as difficult as memorizing the periodic table element and their atomic numbers, mass, protons, electrons and neutrons. As difficult as memorizing the different parts of the different parts of the human body system and their functions. As difficult as memorizing those dates and events of the history.

In short, moving on is too complicated.

Love

Both of you may be madly in love to each other. You share the same passion. You keep on doing those sweet gestures to one another to express your affection and care. But what if a VERY BIG problem arises? Will everything still be the same? Will the fire of your love still be burning? Or one of you will give up? One of you will let go?

Love is not all about those sweetness and passion. It is also about being strong and the ability to hold on and the will to fight for it until the end. Those happy moments are part of every relationship, same go with the silly fights and arguments. They test the both of you/ They make you stronger. They make the bond tighter. They make the relationship healthier so when that BIG PROBLEM comes, both of you will be prepared to fae it together, without giving up and letting go. 

The Passion

Tons of people can write but not everyone has the passion. Writing should be a passion. If you want to be a writer someday, you should be passionate about it. Without the passion, it’s just a waste of time. What you do will be just a piece of crap. 

Writing is also an escape and way of expressing. I understand that most of the aspiring writers want to be famous. Of course, they want their thoughts to be heard. They want to serve as the voices of those people who can’t express themselves. But before they achieve such fame, they should keep in mind that they should first write for themselves. They should put pieces of themselves on whatever they are doing. They should pour their heart out because if they don’t do it, it will be just non-sense.

Readers can sense it if the writers are just writing to impress or garner fame. They can feel if the writers are truly enjoying what they are doing. They can feel if the writers actually have the passion in writing.

If you will just write for the sake of fame, you cannot ever call yourself a good writer. Writers write to fulfill and satisfy their passionate desire to write, not to please people. Yes, writers have readers but their first readers are themselves. 

If you write for yourself, you will not even bother if people are criticizing your works because in the first place you write, not for them, You write for yourself. You write because you can’t live without writing.

If you have the passion in writing, you are one lucky individual. Just keep on writing. 

Being Immortal

Do you think that it’s a cool idea? You will be immortal and you will be able to do the things you want to do. You will not fear death because you can defy it. You will not worry about danger, fatal illness and calamities because you will not die. You are immortal so you will challenge yourself to death. You will do the most dangerous acts that can cause death to an ordinary human being. Cool, isn’t it?

But then, being immortal is one of the saddest things that can ever happen to humans (if it actually exists). Every people around you whom you value, love and treasure so much will gradually pass away. They will all leave you behind. Do you want something like that? Do you want to be left alone in a world full of strangers? 

From generations to generations, you will witness tragic deaths of people. Especially those people who are close to your heart. Seeing something like that is even more terrifying than actual death. Seeing your love ones die actually kills you. Your physical immortality can’t help you with this.

Being immortal is cool if all the people you love are immortals too.

But then, when you are immortal, you will be restless. You will have to battle this life relentlessly . And that sucks. People needs rest. That’s why be thankful that you are mortal because someday, it will all end. 

Little Things

I love the way you rest your head on my shoulder because it feels so right. I love the way your hands fit into mine because it feels like you're really meant for me. I love the way you run your fingers through your hair because you look so stunning. I love the way your facial expressions suddenly shift because I get the chance to witness the most amazing milisecond.

I love the way how your voice sounds because it's my most favorite song ever. I love the way you walk because it just makes me fall to you harder. I love the way you eat because it is so natural and refine, I love the way you argue with me because it's the sweetest thing ever.

I love the way you say, 'i hate yo' because it makes me love you more. I love the way you say 'I need you' because it makes me feel like I'm your knight in shining armor. I love the way you express your love for me because it proves that I 'm above all those guy you didn't choose. 

I love every little thing about you because those little things make me love you more and  more. Those little things make my love for you stronger. Those little things have big impact on me. 

Blessings in Disguise

The world will keep on revolving even you carry a lot of burdens on your shoulders. The sun will still rise to the east and set to the west. People will keep on moving and the vehicles will still honk. 

Meaning, problems in life won't make the world stop. They are given by God to test you. To make you learn something you're suppose to learn and know. Don't be a cry baby. Don't lock yourself in your room, sitting in one corner or wrapping the blanket around you. Don't be an EMO. Don't be a coward. Face your problems.

Nothing will happen if you keep on doing that. Problems are just problems. G comes first before P in alphabet, right? Meaning, you should look up and put God first rather than your problems. They are part of this life. So does God. God gave you those complex situations and circumstances for you to talk to Him.  For you to believe His will. Those problems carry something that will benefit you in the future. They are blessings in disguise 

Get out of the dark and see the light of life. 

Being Stubborn

You may have your family and friends but the only person who will help you in dealing with your problems is yourself. They can say their thoughts, opinions and advises but then, it's still up to you whether you will take those words or not. 

They may be willing to help you but when you're the one who is stubborn to deal with it and help yourself, it's non-sense. Useless. It's gotta be a two-way process. They will help you and you'll help yourself.

If you insist on not helping yourself, those people around you might get tired of helping you. Don't be stubborn. Grow up. Be mature. Help yourself.